Queen of the Happenstance Realm

Happenstance, it is all just happenstance isn't it? This blog is used to share my thoughts about whatever silly or serious somethin' or other that's on mind- I use to update it everyday until... until... Feel free to leave comments, I love sharing ideas and IF you comment, I might start posting again. Represented are some aspects of who I am. All this together is a small piece of my life.

Tuesday, October 11

Hurt Feelings

So I got my feelings REALLY hurt today.

A little background…
We are planning our End-of-Season Party for soccer and it has been a little cumbersome trying to meet everyone’s needs. I was thrilled with all the suggestions but the requirements started to become pretty narrow. I prioritized the “requests” and came up with what I thought was the perfect meet-in-the-middle/let’s-move-forward/right-at-the-time solution (with all things considered). Two Mom’s didn’t agree and fact checked me coming to the wrong conclusion. I was shocked that they didn't believe me but glad they at least addressed their concerns with me. Still once I clarified the details, I did not have their support of my decision like I had expected. Words like 'disappointed' and feelings of being 'deceived' were expressed- no apologizes we made and I got the feeling like their acceptance of my explanation was barely accepted at all.

Anyway, I wanted to say enough- everyone had a chance to offer their input but now a decision needs to be made because the discussion has gone on long enough. Maybe I’m wrong? What role do you think a soccer coach has in these decisions?

I’m not aware that my parents read this blog but comment with care.

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